Talking about things one needs to do before 30, one’s mind will easily wander off to financial or marital deadlines.
However, those are far from the truth even topic of today. Talking about the things to accomplish before the big 3, a number of them come to mind. Be rest assured that there I no fast rule to this. It is completely okay if you do not feel up to It or they do not make sense to you.
However, life is meant to be experienced and lived. The aim is not to pass through the tunnel like you are an option. Constant adventure, purpose delivery and exposure lined with pleasure, fulfillment and smiles should be the target of all our activities.
Learn to cook for yourself
The value of a home cooked meal cannot be over emphasised. It is as much rewarding as it is relaxing to do. It does not only keep your legs indoors as an adult but allows you maintain a healthy eating lifestyle. If you feel like inviting friends over and treating them to a meal please do: the goal is for you to make your meals indoors. You don’t have to become a gourmet cook if you do not want to.
Start Saving
You actually do not have to wait for the big break before you begin to make those savings. It may seem like retirement is still far off but hey, a stich in time saves nine. Ok, maybe retirement is still far off but what happened to saving for rainy days and for stuffs that are necessary.
Indulge in Luxury at least once
Ok, this is not necessarily for you to go bankrupt. I am not saying become a spend rift either. But hey, don’t tell me you never made enough money to spoil yourself by yourself with what you want for yourself (lol). This is just so you know what it feels like. That way you will be able to concentrate on what matters. This helps you to overcome distractions as nothing looks new or sounds new to you so……lets swipe the damn card.
Try and Fail
Nobody says it was going to be easy. Before you turn 30, you should at least try your hands on something you do not have absolute control over. It could be a new job, falling in love, a business, a trip just, do something. Those life lessons learnt from failing or not to be so negative, not succeeding at something will help shape your decisions in future.
Know what you want
I know that we are constantly being reminded that it is a free world, do you, there is no timeline and stuffs like that. This is not to dispute the fact that those propositions are true. However, in a situation where true humanity is not just being responsible for ourselves but also being responsible for the consequences of our decisions, one cannot continue to dance in the rain all day, you will get a cold. In essence, before you turn 30, at least know what you want and where you are headed and the kind of life you want to lead and work towards it. This is essential as it orders your steps properly.
So, from my own end, here are a couple of things that if they become part of you before 30, it will be a lot easier to walk through this tunnel called life. Leggooo!!!
Ok, so who else feels like these are things we know already, hahaha, I know right. From the corner of my heart, the only actual thing you have to do before 30 is be you, do you, be happy, be responsible for your actions and decision and then, do you…. There is no rule book.
