Is not getting good morning texts a red flag?
When people are dating, they are looking for signs of compatibility and asking themselves if this is someone they want to spend their lives with.
A great part of dating is communication. One of the ways to communicate is by texting good morning, good night and checking up on your boyfriend/girlfriend during the day. Here’s why.
We spend a lot of time on our phones, so why not text your beloved?
How are you holding your phone, scrolling through social media apps, but you can’t spare a second to wish the person you are considering spending the rest of your life with a good morning?
It shows you like them
Sending a good morning text at the very least shows how much you like the person. It doesn’t matter the gender of who is sending a good morning text, when we meet someone who wants to wish us a good morning and a great day, it’s obvious they like us.
It says, ‘you are on my mind’
I don’t know about you, but when I’m in a romantic relationship with someone, I want to know that they are thinking about me a lot. A relationship should be a shelter from the difficulties of the world, and the object of your love should offer some comfort, that’s why even work shouldn’t take them away from your mind.
It takes nothing
No one is asking you to spend flowers every day, it’s ‘good morning, my love, have a great day’. It literally takes a second of your time; even surgeons can send a text before they begin surgery. So, work isn’t a good excuse.
It’s not a hard and fast rule
Of course, a good morning text is important, but it’s not the entire sum of a relationship. It’s not the entire metric: if your partner does everything right by you except send good morning texts, it does not mean you are not loved. If these texts matter so much to you, send them every day to them.
