Here’s how to cut through the crickets-filled silence when your friend wants their partner to tag along to a friends-only getaway.
Some couples are best friends and inseparable. This means going to most places and doing things together. Yes, some couples enjoy each other’s company that much. So when a friends-only trip comes up they may not see any issue with coming together.
Now, this can provoke resentment and, honestly, an awkward moment for everyone involved.
It might also create a pact to ban the tight couple from future trips.
But things are rarely that clear cut. So before this becomes a problem, here are some tips to deal with this situation.
It is okay to tell them not to come
You are in your right to revoke the invitation because it is presumptuous of your friend to bring their partner without asking. It may be their relationship dynamic but that is not your responsibility. Avoid falling into guilt trips and disinvite them cordially.
Find a replacement
You might as well find someone else who can fit in with the group plans. If after communicating that it’s a friends-only trip and they get mad or decline, you can extend the opportunity to someone else.
Remain in touch
This should not become a problem for you who go on the trip. Keep in touch and communicate with the friend who stayed behind. Don’t let any animosity linger, talk through the issue upon return.
Focus on planned activities
If your decides to come along and leave their partner behind, don’t let it ruin your trip. Stick to the activities you planned and don’t let it turn into a comfort party for that friend. Not only will this ruin the trip, but it will also create more animosity.
Conclusion
Leaving a friend out of group activities can be awkward. But sometimes it is necessary and that should not be a problem. The important thing is to stick to your plans and maintain clear communication.
