A Kano-based television presenter, Naomi Nancy David, has sparked online debate after declaring that men should prioritize respect over financial success when choosing a wife.
She stated that it is better for a man to marry an unemployed woman who respects him than a successful one who does not.
Naomi Nancy made the statement during a recent media discussion that quickly gained attention on social media, especially on Twitter. Her remarks have divided opinions among users, with some agreeing that respect is the foundation of a peaceful home, while others argued that success and respect can coexist in a relationship.
According to the presenter, “It’s better for a man to marry an unemployed woman who respects him than a successful woman who doesn’t.” She emphasized that many marriages fail today not because of poverty, but because of pride and lack of humility in relationships.
Her statement reads in part: “A respectful woman will always value her man regardless of her financial status. Money doesn’t build a home, character does.” The comment has since gone viral, with many users quoting her post and sharing their personal experiences on social media.
While some Nigerians supported Naomi Nancy’s view, saying mutual respect remains key in marriage, others criticized the comment as outdated, claiming it promotes dependency and undervalues women’s achievements. A few netizens also questioned whether the presenter’s statement was taken out of context.
As of now, Naomi Nancy has not made any further public clarification on her statement. However, the discussion continues to trend across various social media platforms, reflecting the ongoing debate about gender roles and relationship values in modern society.